Why Your Self-Worth Is Affecting Your Net Worth

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“You don’t earn more by doing more.
You earn more when you believe you’re worth more.”


💰 Why You’re Working So Hard… But Still Not Wealthy

You’ve taken the courses.
You’ve made the vision board.
You’ve burned out trying to prove yourself.

And yet — the money still isn’t flowing the way you know it should.

Why?

Because deep down…
You’re still negotiating with your worth.


🔒 The Hidden Link: Net Worth = Self-Worth Reflected

We’ve been told:

  • Money is about hard work

  • Wealth is for the lucky few

  • You have to “earn” your value

But here’s what the soul knows:

You will only receive what you believe you deserve.

If you unconsciously believe:

  • “I’m not good enough”

  • “I’m a burden”

  • “Who am I to charge this?”

  • “They’ll reject me if I shine too bright”

…your energy will repel the very abundance you’re trying to manifest.


🧠 This Is Not Woo-Woo — It’s Energetic Psychology

Your nervous system has been trained to stay at a level of safety.

So if abundance feels unfamiliar or threatening (even subconsciously), you’ll self-sabotage:

  • Undervalue your services

  • Overgive until you’re drained

  • Delay launching your product

  • Say yes to low-paying work

  • Avoid visibility and big opportunities

It’s not laziness.
It’s not bad luck.
It’s a worthiness wound.


🧸 Where Does It Come From?

Almost always… childhood.

Were you praised only when you achieved?
Were you told you were “too much”?
Did your parents struggle and shame “rich” people?
Were you compared, criticized, ignored?

These moments became money programs in your subconscious.

They now whisper:

  • “Play small so they won’t judge you.”

  • “Don’t charge more — they’ll leave.”

  • “Be grateful for scraps.”

  • “Stay humble — wealth is dangerous.”

And you wonder why your income plateaus?

Because your identity is still stuck in survival — not receiving.


🌀 The Ho’oponopono Reset: Healing Your Worth to Expand Your Wealth

The ancient Hawaiian prayer Ho’oponopono isn’t just for forgiveness.

It’s for clearing emotional memory — the hidden energy clogging your worthiness.

Repeat the 4 phrases, while holding your past self in compassion:

“I’m sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
I love you.”

Say it to:

  • The child who was told they weren’t enough

  • The teenager who gave away their power

  • The adult who shrank to make others comfortable

You’re not weak — you were unhealed.

Until now.


🔥 Real Shifts My Clients Have Made

🔸 Leila raised her coaching rate by 3x after clearing childhood guilt from being the “rich one” in her friend group
🔸 Anand stopped undercharging for his art after forgiving his father for calling creativity “a waste of time”
🔸 Jacky  finally said no to discount-hunting clients — and attracted three new ones who paid in full

They didn’t change their business.

They changed their belief in what they were worthy of.


💬 Soul Truth: You Don’t “Earn” Worthiness — You Remember It

You are not valuable because of your bank account.
You attract abundance when you embody your inherent value.

Stop waiting for external validation.
Stand in your truth:

✅ I am worthy of being well paid
✅ I am worthy of ease, not just effort
✅ I am worthy of charging full price — and being paid joyfully
✅ I am worthy of wealth that doesn’t drain my soul


💡 Action Steps to Align Net Worth with Self-Worth

1. Journal Prompt:

“Where in my life do I still feel like I’m ‘not enough’ to receive more?”

2. Mirror Work + Ho’oponopono

Look into your own eyes and say:

“I’m sorry for ever doubting you.
Please forgive me.
Thank you for surviving so much.
I love you.”

Do this for 7 days straight.

3. Set a Worthiness Boundary

Say no to one thing this week that you only accepted from lack — not love.


❤️ Final Thoughts

You don’t need more credentials, more followers, or more hustle.
You need one thing:

A deep, embodied decision that you are enough — now.

That’s the moment your net worth shifts.
Not because money changes who you are — but because you finally stop rejecting who you’ve always been.


✨ Ready to Expand Worth + Wealth?

 

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